
Advent arrives in a world trained to gratify itself instantly.
One click. One tap. One purchase. One scroll.
We gratify hunger with speed, boredom with noise, loneliness with endless images of other people’s lives. We are taught that fulfillment should be immediate, customized, and effortless.
But Advent interrupts this instinct.
Advent does not gratify.
Advent teaches us to wait.
To wait in the dark.
To sit with ache.
To let longing stretch us instead of stuffing it.
Scripture tells us plainly:
“Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.” – Galatians 5:24
To gratify the flesh is to try to feed the ache of the soul with things that can’t satisfy: comfort, recognition, control, distraction, indulgence. But Advent invites us to a different hunger—a holy hunger that makes room for Christ.
In Advent, we learn that not every desire deserves gratification.
Some desires are meant to lead us to God.
Mary waited.
Israel waited.
The world waited.
They were not numbing their longing. They were stewarding it.
And in that waiting, something holy grew.
So Advent gently asks us:
Where have you been rushing to gratify yourself instead of letting God fill you?
Where have you silenced holy longing with quick fixes?
What if the ache is not your enemy, but your invitation?
Because Christmas is not about instant gratification.
It’s about divine incarnation—God entering our waiting, not eliminating it.
And when Christ finally comes, he doesn’t arrive as a product to consume…
he comes as a person to receive.
This Advent, may we fast from shallow gratification and learn again the beauty of deep, patient gratitude.
Come, Lord Jesus.

